When you have been emotionally moved by
a child who is old enough to realize that his or her presence in the family
provides an extra mouth to feed, yet perhaps he or she is still too young
to be out on their own and working, yet he or she is most willing to go
away 'somewhere' for the sake of leaving more food on the table for mom
and dad, brothers and sisters, you'll comprehend what Emmanuel meant when
He said not to be selfishly restrictive when it comes to helping:.Matthew
25:42-45 "For I was an hungred and you gave me no meat. I was thirsty
and you gave me no drink. I was a stranger and you took me not in, naked
and you clothed me not, sick and in prison and you visited me not. Then
they answered him, saying, Lord, when saw we you an hungred or athirst
or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison and did not minister unto you?
Then he answered them saying, verily.('in
truth' or 'of a truth').I
say unto you, Inasmuch as you
did
it not to one of the least of these, you did it not to me." John
15:13 "Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life.(your
life is your time {one
thing you can do}, your presence and your substance here).for
his friends." Luke 6:38 "Give and it
is given unto you, good measure, pressed down and shaken together and running
over, do men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that you mete
withal.('withal'
means 'in addition', 'besides').it
is measured to you again."
Matthew 9:29
".....According to your faith be it unto you."
It's such a sad commentary
on humanity's control of money that there is always enough to eliminate
poverty, but is used by the cabal's greed.
There is always
enough to fund
ways of destruction
of humanity, one way being contrived
wars and another being bioweapons
falsely labeled vaccines. And
more. That's the way it's been with what's called the satanic 'deep
state' when it was in control of the world. They're
done now! Some remnants are still being cleaned up.
When the ego is prevalent
the dark side reigns.
The
famous golden rule is still taught throughout the world today, except
in families with dumb ass parents.
Higher consciousness parents are those interested in their children growing
up to be good.(what's
good?).people
who remember.(they
listened).what
they have been taught:.Proverbs
22:6. There is a
way to be sure your children each grow to be high quality individuals.
Today young people have been
bamboozled
into believing you can't be honest
and get ahead. Following this route brings many heartaches both
right away and later in life. It's the route of those not believing
God can take good care of you and does, if you're an upright
individual:.Matthew
6:30-33; 7:7-12.
If you are a
believer,
God the Creator, will more
than make up what you give to help others and God considers your
children as precious to Him as to you. Let your children know that
they are important to life by not being overbearing
with them.
As children, we learned
that we are loved when we are well behaved and doing everything right,
but what happens when we can't achieve this? The wish of every child, the
longing of every person of any age is to be unconditionally accepted and
loved as one is. Development is only possible when the human being
can simply be human. Instead of demanding that children do this or that
correctly, emphasize they listen to their inner voice. Teach them to ask
themselves, 'How do I feel?' regarding this or that which comes into their
lives. And parents should also ask them this, 'How do you feel about...'
and not be judging, only listening. Step by step with this approach, the
heart grows softer and wider and any fear of doing something wrong and
of not being good enough begins to evaporate.
Teach them to consciously
notice their thoughts and feelings, as it will give them a great advantage
in life.."For
a long time I didn't feel worthy of being healed or being happy. Through
intently observing my thoughts and feelings and through questioning the
reasons for my unpleasant feelings, such as fear, pressure/tension, worry,
guilt, envy, etc., understanding, empathy
and loving self-acceptance grew inside me. Now I'm able to accept that
I am not able to put things into practice yet, even after 21 years. The
wish to do so and what Bruno Gröning
calls the 'einstellen' or the time in simple meditation,
are the door openers."....Petra
B, Germany.
Through following the teaching
of Bruno Gröning many receive help and healing, through the energy
of what, in German, is called the
Heilstrom.
Through Bruno's teachings one finds the support to do what is right
in every situation in life.
Kids desire to and seek ways
to improve life for themselves, but it's when we grow up comparing to others.(2Corinthians
10:12).in
a manner that emphasizes our lack, bitterness can set in:.James
3:13-16.
Some kids, being allowed
to grow up obstinately,
just have to learn the ignorant
way, which is the hard way, because they have not been taught how wisdom
can allow them to see the end results of actions, both their own and those
of others they see. Dumb
ass parents by failing to properly train their children allow by default
the darkness in them to flourish.
With wisdom and wisdom's
brother, imagination, children
have powerful tools that will both keep them out of trouble, keep them
happy and lead them into prospering in all their ways:.Proverbs
1:10-14.
The lesson of little children:.Matthew
18:3;
19:14;
Hebrews
12:15.
Pointers
-Probably the most important
thing
regarding
bringing up children.
-The next most important
thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother. A good
relationship is ground zero for mental health. It is the best gift you
could possibly ever give your children.
Children learn as they see
their parents live daily. Life.(like
Christ).is
something that is learned by being around others who are living it. Keep
in contact with the spiritual if you want guidance in all areas where you
may need it. Through prayer/meditation
and Bible study you absorb the mind of the Infinite One.
Shuffling kids off to Sunday
School to get them 'religion' is a distant second to last night's taking
them to bed and reading or making up, that is, developing an impromptu
story, a story with your explanations tailored for their age and
letting them drift off to sleep in peace after you've asked them what they
thought of the story and answered any questions they may have had as you
were telling it, so you can see if they were getting anything out of it,
if it was that kind of story. Stories
for kids.
Good classic books to read
to them which will carry over their wondrous
interest till next reading time:.Huckleberry
Finn.and.Tom
Sawyer, both by the great wit.Mark
Twain.
Avoid shoving kids off to
bed alone. Better to go to bed at the same time with them, until
they get older, then get up early before them to do what you may still
have to do. Can you discipline yourself to do it?.Proverbs
25:28. Can you get your mind off your own concerns long enough to consider
the long term needs of your children?
-And it is crucial
both parents provide a safe, secure
and happy home environment, so their children can grow up stable, becoming
well balanced individuals, having learned solid information.
Get their
curiosity
going. Ask them things that get them thinking, such
as, where in this kitchen can you find a star pattern? Then take an
apple and cut off the bottom 1/4 of it, showing the inside to your kid.
What
are some of the stories that you think fruits and vegetable tell?
Teach them to describe what
they see, such as people, like this
description of how someone looked.
A child's curiosity will
lead him or her to ask questions such as...
So, why aren't they happy,
if it is that they aren't?
Unhappy kids equals unhappy
adults later. Children are unhappy because they lack nourishment,
nourishment from their soul
being connected with the Soul
of all, the Creator God. They become happy by knowing how to be around
adults, 1, 2.
They may be unhappy because
dumb ass parents have allowed them to be jabbed
with poisons, fed with poison
food, processed food, rather than fresh organic food and allowed them
to play with low consciousness children in the neighborhood. So, they'll
lack nourishment
from
family and friends.(low
quality or no quality relationships).and
their environment, which includes the food
they eat and what they see, provide what choices to have. Love is nourishment
in all areas of life. When you lift
up your kids, you lift up yourself.
Teach children that there
is always another way of looking at each thing. Ask God for illumination
on things you're not sure about; ask for insight
to see the other ways. If you're not connected with God, you are drifting
in a world of toxic opinions and all toxic opinions come with confusion.
The only thing that's correct is God and what's of God. But one floating
through the vissisitudes of life is like a fly, stopping here for a moment
and there for a moment. When life is anchored in God you have today what
all humanity will eventually latch onto, the so-called holy
grail.
Invite fantasy
and experimentation and openness. Teach your child to find one good thing
about another and talk about it at dinner.
Deepak Chopra has Monday
to exercise the law of giving with his family. Have each child give something
to another in the family. Here they learn both givingness and proper acceptance
by receiving graciously
and with appreciation.
Perhaps each child can take a turn at preparing breakfast or at least helping
mom to do so. Ask them how it feels to give. Have each family member say
one thing that day that they are thankful for:.Colossians
3:15 "And let the peace of God rule in your hearts to the which
also you are called in one body and be you thankful.".Being
thankful is being mindful of favors done. Read
the 'this is good' story.
-Another important consideration
toward baby is preventing SIDS. .(Sudden
Infant Death Syndrome). Search at childrenshealthdefense.org, naturalnews.com,
greenmedinfo.com, mercola.com, drrashidbuttar.com and other sites, for
it.
-A good way to bring up
children is to never let them down! One way to let them down is to avoid
teaching them spiritual concepts.
Higher
consciousness thoughts preclude
the lower ones. Children
developing the high quality mind of the Infinite One turn out as higher
quality children:.Proverbs
22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is older
he will not depart from it."
From even before the time
of birth and being a baby, learning from awareness begins. What
sets the tone for this? A baby mirrors the neurons of the caretakers.
It is aware of a person's movements; are they stiff and restricted? relaxed
and confident and calm? A baby notices one's eyes; are they kind and happy
or angry and cruel? A baby notices whether one is scowling
or smiling, notices the sound of voices; is the voice pleasant and cheerful
or morose, constricted
and frustrated?
A baby notices affection, notices movements; are movements threatening?
and so on. What vibes are your children exposed to?
Showing favoritism shows
lack of intelligence on a parents part. Liking one child because he is
a certain way and giving that child the bulk of attention and love, shows
that the parent has yet to discover how to bring the best forth from the
other children, choosing instead to focus on negatives in them. Jacob
made the same error with serious consequences.
-Parents are very good at
telling a child what they have done wrong:.Colossians
3:21. Better to emphasize
what is right with the child and right for them to do. That will build
into him or her a sureness that he is of value and will provide them confidence.
Criticism
kills.
Good works of higher consciousness
are works that individuals from Abraham.(Genesis
18:19).to
Christ
have held as being important for living on this Earth.
Encouragement
with proper discipline builds. Discouragement tears down. A child must
come to know what is acceptable and what is not.
Criticism takes hope away
from a child or anyone for
that matter. Criticism clouds the seeing
of a hopeful positive future. This is how criticism kills. If you destroy
hope, you have
relegated him
to a life in which he will view many things negatively. How good do
you think he or she will do in life with that kind of emotional coloring?
Parents like this are not much above a murderer. They are of the
'dumb ass' class.
Some children would not think
of bringing their friends home to meet mom and/or dad. Perhaps dad is a
half way alcoholic critical s.o.b. and momma's a fat insolent
slob! Parents ask yourself, Are your children proud of you as their mom
and dad, happy to be around you, to do things with you and later in the
teenage years at least happy to bring their friends home when you are there?
Children learn violence.
They learn it from examples of it in their family, from violent TV, horrible
fairy tales, violent movies, violent video games, etc.
There are a few good
fairy
tales that are extremely beneficial, but Humpty Dumpty, Red
Riding Hood, Hansel and Gretal and the like, are not at all
conducive
to growing higher consciousness qualities of character within one. If you
bring a child up with this kind of crap, you'll have a child that draws
from his memory bank for living life.
Later in schools we have
the even worse Rocking Horse
Winner, like, are the people making up the school curriculums
mental institution inmates out on passes? Talk about subjugating
the imagination of another; talk about eradicating
hope through psychological programming. Talk about book burning. Read them
and see what you think they are worthy of.
American Psychological Association
and other associations have issued a definitive statement corroborating
that violence on TV, movies, video games, etc., are measurable, has negative
effects that are long term on children and contribute to the increasing
violence among and by children who may be or are becoming bullies.
Violent acts including physical
harm in the form of rape occur because rape has been learned, from somewhere
and mostly from ideas
planted in the imagination that the devil, head of the dark side, can
pump. The goodness we are born
with is surreptitiously
being stamped out.
Teach your children not to
be hurtful to others, by explaining and showing them how to be kind and
why they should be. We are all of God. Respect the God in others. Words
spoken can hurt and much as physical violence.
Parents aid in creating criminals
when they fail to encourage their children.(by
participating in conversation that builds
brain cells).to
learn and think.
